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Washington (CNN)During a Thursday afternoon event in the White House’s East Room, first lady Melania Trump stood at the podium and closed her remarks by saying something she has not often said — and certainly not said lately — about her husband: “I am so proud to support him today, as he sees this commitment through.”

It was a perfectly conventional thing for a first lady to say. In this case, she was discussing President Donald Trump’s decision to declare a public health emergency to stem the country’s ongoing opioid crisis. But like so many other things in the Trump administration, for the first couple, convention is an anomaly and the line of support marked a rare public moment.Melania Trump, in stark contrast to her seemingly ubiquitous husband, has emerged as the most mysterious woman in Washington. Since moving here with her son, Barron, 11, this summer, she has demonstrated none of the extrovert bravado that so defines the man she married. In fact, of late it’s been her quietly touted solo activities that have begun to define an otherwise private first lady. ‘Mrs. Trump is independent’Melania Trump speaks to students about bullyingMelania Trump speaks to students about bullyingMelania Trump speaks to students about bullyingJUST WATCHEDMelania Trump speaks to students about bullyingReplayMore Videos …MUST WATCH

Melania Trump speaks to students about bullying 00:45Read MoreTake, for example, the East Wing response to cries of hypocrisy when she outlined an early platform taking on school bullying.The idea that Melania Trump would tackle bullying when her husband is seen by millions as one of the country’s best examples of bad behavior sparked countless opinion pieces pointing out how he uses terms such as “wacky” and “liddle” for elected officials. Asked by CNN if the first lady feels the need to reconcile that irony with what she’s trying to accomplish, Trump’s communications director Stephanie Grisham said flatly, “no.” “Mrs. Trump is independent and acts independently from her husband,” Grisham told CNN at the time. “She does what she feels is right and knows that she has a real opportunity through her role as first lady to have a positive impact on the lives of children. Her only focus is to effect change within our next generation.”The statement is clearly meant to separate the first lady from the orbit of her husband, which is fundamentally different than first ladies of recent memory. But the idea that Trump is doing things her own way shouldn’t come as a surprise, said Anita McBride, who served as chief of staff to first lady Laura Bush. “A first lady gets to rewrite the position and the job description any way she wants to, and Melania has, from Day 1, really, been charting her own course,” McBride said. “From the beginning, by saying she wasn’t even going to move down to Washington right away, she has been very open and honest about doing things on her own time, in her own way.”McBride pointed to how the first lady has staffed her office with just nine members, as opposed to the 20 or so that predecessors Michelle Obama and Laura Bush each had.”It’s not the way it’s been done in the past, but this is a first lady who said she was interested in quality and not quantity,” she said. But part of Melania Trump’s unique path is born of necessity.A former Obama White House official said Michelle Obama, who did pursue an agenda independent of her husband, would never have needed to distance herself so explicitly from him.”There would never have been anything similar to that (statement from Grisham) because it wasn’t an issue for the Obamas,” the official told CNN. “Michelle Obama had her own agenda — Let Girls Learn, Let’s Move, Joining Forces — but at no point did any of those conflict with the President’s words, actions, or policies,” the source said. Spousal supportUS President Donald Trump and his wife, Melania, arrive at Paris' Orly Airport on Thursday, July 13. They were invited by French President Emmanuel Macron to attend the country's Bastille Day celebrations.US President Donald Trump and his wife, Melania, arrive at Paris' Orly Airport on Thursday, July 13. They were invited by French President Emmanuel Macron to attend the country's Bastille Day celebrations. Photos: First lady Melania TrumpUS President Donald Trump and his wife, Melania, arrive at Paris’ Orly Airport on Thursday, July 13. They were invited by French President Emmanuel Macron to attend the country’s Bastille Day celebrations.Hide Caption 1 of 27Melania Trump, seated fourth from left, plays with children during a visit to the Copernicus Science Centre in Warsaw, Poland, on Thursday, July 6. She was joined by Polish first lady Agata Kornhauser-Duda, who is in the pink jacket. The Trumps <a href="http://www.cnn.com/2017/07/06/politics/gallery/trump-poland-germany/index.html" target="_blank">were visiting Poland</a> ahead of a G20 summit in Germany.Melania Trump, seated fourth from left, plays with children during a visit to the Copernicus Science Centre in Warsaw, Poland, on Thursday, July 6. She was joined by Polish first lady Agata Kornhauser-Duda, who is in the pink jacket. The Trumps <a href="http://www.cnn.com/2017/07/06/politics/gallery/trump-poland-germany/index.html" target="_blank">were visiting Poland</a> ahead of a G20 summit in Germany. Photos: First lady Melania TrumpMelania Trump, seated fourth from left, plays with children during a visit to the Copernicus Science Centre in Warsaw, Poland, on Thursday, July 6. She was joined by Polish first lady Agata Kornhauser-Duda, who is in the pink jacket. The Trumps were visiting Poland ahead of a G20 summit in Germany.Hide Caption 2 of 27The Trumps arrive at the White House with their son, Barron, on Sunday, June 11. Melania and Barron <a href="http://www.cnn.com/2017/06/09/politics/melania-trump-white-house-move/index.html" target="_blank">were moving in.</a> They had spent the last few months in New York so Barron could finish out his school year.The Trumps arrive at the White House with their son, Barron, on Sunday, June 11. Melania and Barron <a href="http://www.cnn.com/2017/06/09/politics/melania-trump-white-house-move/index.html" target="_blank">were moving in.</a> They had spent the last few months in New York so Barron could finish out his school year. Photos: First lady Melania TrumpThe Trumps arrive at the White House with their son, Barron, on Sunday, June 11. Melania and Barron were moving in. They had spent the last few months in New York so Barron could finish out his school year.Hide Caption 3 of 27Melania Trump arrives at the Vatican as she and her husband met Pope Francis on Wednesday, May 24. <a href="http://www.cnn.com/2017/05/24/politics/melania-trump-pope-francis-headscarf-fashion/index.html" target="_blank">With Vatican protocol in mind,</a> she wore a black veil and long-sleeved black dress draped down to her calf.Melania Trump arrives at the Vatican as she and her husband met Pope Francis on Wednesday, May 24. <a href="http://www.cnn.com/2017/05/24/politics/melania-trump-pope-francis-headscarf-fashion/index.html" target="_blank">With Vatican protocol in mind,</a> she wore a black veil and long-sleeved black dress draped down to her calf. Photos: First lady Melania TrumpMelania Trump arrives at the Vatican as she and her husband met Pope Francis on Wednesday, May 24. With Vatican protocol in mind, she wore a black veil and long-sleeved black dress draped down to her calf.Hide Caption 4 of 27The first lady visits a pediatric hospital in Vatican City on May 24.The first lady visits a pediatric hospital in Vatican City on May 24. Photos: First lady Melania TrumpThe first lady visits a pediatric hospital in Vatican City on May 24.Hide Caption 5 of 27Trump visits the Western Wall, Judaism's holiest prayer site, while in Jerusalem on Monday, May 22.Trump visits the Western Wall, Judaism's holiest prayer site, while in Jerusalem on Monday, May 22. Photos: First lady Melania TrumpTrump visits the Western Wall, Judaism’s holiest prayer site, while in Jerusalem on Monday, May 22.Hide Caption 6 of 27A video clip <a href="http://www.cnn.com/2017/05/22/politics/melania-trump-hand-swat-israel/" target="_blank">went viral</a> May 22 after the first lady appeared to swat her husband's hand away after landing in Israel. It's unclear what caused the swat, if anything. The Trumps held hands minutes later on the tarmac. They also held hands multiple times during their tour of the Middle East.A video clip <a href="http://www.cnn.com/2017/05/22/politics/melania-trump-hand-swat-israel/" target="_blank">went viral</a> May 22 after the first lady appeared to swat her husband's hand away after landing in Israel. It's unclear what caused the swat, if anything. The Trumps held hands minutes later on the tarmac. They also held hands multiple times during their tour of the Middle East. Photos: First lady Melania TrumpA video clip went viral May 22 after the first lady appeared to swat her husband’s hand away after landing in Israel. It’s unclear what caused the swat, if anything. The Trumps held hands minutes later on the tarmac. They also held hands multiple times during their tour of the Middle East.Hide Caption 7 of 27The first lady high-fives a child during a visit to the American International School in Riyadh, Saudi Arabia, on Sunday, May 21.The first lady high-fives a child during a visit to the American International School in Riyadh, Saudi Arabia, on Sunday, May 21. Photos: First lady Melania TrumpThe first lady high-fives a child during a visit to the American International School in Riyadh, Saudi Arabia, on Sunday, May 21.Hide Caption 8 of 27Trump talks with Saudi Crown Prince Mohammad bin Nayef during a ceremony in Riyadh on Saturday, May 20. <a href="http://www.cnn.com/2017/05/20/politics/gallery/trump-first-foreign-trip/index.html" target="_blank">See more photos from the President's first foreign trip</a>Trump talks with Saudi Crown Prince Mohammad bin Nayef during a ceremony in Riyadh on Saturday, May 20. <a href="http://www.cnn.com/2017/05/20/politics/gallery/trump-first-foreign-trip/index.html" target="_blank">See more photos from the President's first foreign trip</a> Photos: First lady Melania TrumpTrump talks with Saudi Crown Prince Mohammad bin Nayef during a ceremony in Riyadh on Saturday, May 20. See more photos from the President’s first foreign tripHide Caption 9 of 27Melania Trump is joined by her husband as she speaks at a Mother's Day event at the White House on Friday, May 12.Melania Trump is joined by her husband as she speaks at a Mother's Day event at the White House on Friday, May 12. Photos: First lady Melania TrumpMelania Trump is joined by her husband as she speaks at a Mother’s Day event at the White House on Friday, May 12.Hide Caption 10 of 27The first lady takes part in a ribbon-cutting ceremony Friday, April 28, at the Children's National Health System in Washington. She spoke at the opening of the Bunny Mellon Healing Garden, where patients and families can spend time outdoors while receiving treatment at the hospital.The first lady takes part in a ribbon-cutting ceremony Friday, April 28, at the Children's National Health System in Washington. She spoke at the opening of the Bunny Mellon Healing Garden, where patients and families can spend time outdoors while receiving treatment at the hospital. Photos: First lady Melania TrumpThe first lady takes part in a ribbon-cutting ceremony Friday, April 28, at the Children’s National Health System in Washington. She spoke at the opening of the Bunny Mellon Healing Garden, where patients and families can spend time outdoors while receiving treatment at the hospital.Hide Caption 11 of 27Trump listens while her husband speaks to the press in the White House Oval Office on Thursday, April 27.Trump listens while her husband speaks to the press in the White House Oval Office on Thursday, April 27. Photos: First lady Melania TrumpTrump listens while her husband speaks to the press in the White House Oval Office on Thursday, April 27.Hide Caption 12 of 27The first lady hugs a child at the annual <a href="http://www.cnn.com/2017/04/17/politics/white-house-easter-egg-roll/" target="_blank">White House Easter Egg Roll</a> on Monday, April 17. They were making cards for members of the US military.The first lady hugs a child at the annual <a href="http://www.cnn.com/2017/04/17/politics/white-house-easter-egg-roll/" target="_blank">White House Easter Egg Roll</a> on Monday, April 17. They were making cards for members of the US military. Photos: First lady Melania TrumpThe first lady hugs a child at the annual White House Easter Egg Roll on Monday, April 17. They were making cards for members of the US military.Hide Caption 13 of 27Trump speaks Wednesday, March 29, at the Secretary of State's <a href="http://www.cnn.com/2017/03/29/politics/melania-trump-speech-state-award/" target="_blank">International Women of Courage Awards.</a> She called for women's empowerment and celebration of diversity.Trump speaks Wednesday, March 29, at the Secretary of State's <a href="http://www.cnn.com/2017/03/29/politics/melania-trump-speech-state-award/" target="_blank">International Women of Courage Awards.</a> She called for women's empowerment and celebration of diversity. Photos: First lady Melania TrumpTrump speaks Wednesday, March 29, at the Secretary of State’s International Women of Courage Awards. She called for women’s empowerment and celebration of diversity.Hide Caption 14 of 27The first lady's Twitter account posted this photo Friday, March 2, of Trump reading a book to children at New York-Presbyterian Hospital. "Honoring children #worldbookday," <a href="https://twitter.com/FLOTUS/status/837417717133111297" target="_blank">the tweet said.</a>The first lady's Twitter account posted this photo Friday, March 2, of Trump reading a book to children at New York-Presbyterian Hospital. "Honoring children #worldbookday," <a href="https://twitter.com/FLOTUS/status/837417717133111297" target="_blank">the tweet said.</a> Photos: First lady Melania TrumpThe first lady’s Twitter account posted this photo Friday, March 2, of Trump reading a book to children at New York-Presbyterian Hospital. “Honoring children #worldbookday,” the tweet said.Hide Caption 15 of 27Trump arrives at <a href="http://www.cnn.com/2017/02/28/politics/gallery/trump-joint-address-congress/index.html" target="_blank">a joint session of Congress</a> to hear a speech by her husband on Tuesday, February 28.Trump arrives at <a href="http://www.cnn.com/2017/02/28/politics/gallery/trump-joint-address-congress/index.html" target="_blank">a joint session of Congress</a> to hear a speech by her husband on Tuesday, February 28. Photos: First lady Melania TrumpTrump arrives at a joint session of Congress to hear a speech by her husband on Tuesday, February 28.Hide Caption 16 of 27The President kisses his wife as they are introduced during <a href="http://www.cnn.com/2017/02/18/politics/donald-trump-florida-campaign-rally/" target="_blank">a rally in Melbourne, Florida,</a> on Saturday, February 18.The President kisses his wife as they are introduced during <a href="http://www.cnn.com/2017/02/18/politics/donald-trump-florida-campaign-rally/" target="_blank">a rally in Melbourne, Florida,</a> on Saturday, February 18. Photos: First lady Melania TrumpThe President kisses his wife as they are introduced during a rally in Melbourne, Florida, on Saturday, February 18.Hide Caption 17 of 27The first lady walks with Sara Netanyahu at the White House on Wednesday, February 15. Israeli Prime Minister <a href="http://www.cnn.com/2017/02/14/politics/trump-israel-netanyahu-washington-visit/" target="_blank">Benjamin Netanyahu was in Washington</a> to strengthen US-Israel relations after some strained years during the Obama administration.The first lady walks with Sara Netanyahu at the White House on Wednesday, February 15. Israeli Prime Minister <a href="http://www.cnn.com/2017/02/14/politics/trump-israel-netanyahu-washington-visit/" target="_blank">Benjamin Netanyahu was in Washington</a> to strengthen US-Israel relations after some strained years during the Obama administration. Photos: First lady Melania TrumpThe first lady walks with Sara Netanyahu at the White House on Wednesday, February 15. Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu was in Washington to strengthen US-Israel relations after some strained years during the Obama administration.Hide Caption 18 of 27Lonnie Bunch, director of the National Museum of African American History and Culture, talks with Trump and Netanyahu as they tour the museum in Washington on February 15.Lonnie Bunch, director of the National Museum of African American History and Culture, talks with Trump and Netanyahu as they tour the museum in Washington on February 15. Photos: First lady Melania TrumpLonnie Bunch, director of the National Museum of African American History and Culture, talks with Trump and Netanyahu as they tour the museum in Washington on February 15.Hide Caption 19 of 27Trump and Akie Abe, wife of Japanese Prime Minister Shinzo Abe, <a href="http://www.cnn.com/2017/02/11/politics/melania-trump-akie-abe-garden-tour-florida/" target="_blank">tour the Morikami Museum and Japanese Gardens</a> in Delray Beach, Florida, on Saturday, February 11. It was Trump's first solo public appearance as first lady. Trump and Akie Abe, wife of Japanese Prime Minister Shinzo Abe, <a href="http://www.cnn.com/2017/02/11/politics/melania-trump-akie-abe-garden-tour-florida/" target="_blank">tour the Morikami Museum and Japanese Gardens</a> in Delray Beach, Florida, on Saturday, February 11. It was Trump's first solo public appearance as first lady. Photos: First lady Melania TrumpTrump and Akie Abe, wife of Japanese Prime Minister Shinzo Abe, tour the Morikami Museum and Japanese Gardens in Delray Beach, Florida, on Saturday, February 11. It was Trump’s first solo public appearance as first lady. Hide Caption 20 of 27The first lady shakes hands with Japanese Prime Minister Shinzo Abe before boarding Air Force One with her husband on Friday, February 10. The Trumps hosted the Abes at their Mar-a-Lago estate in Palm Beach, Florida.The first lady shakes hands with Japanese Prime Minister Shinzo Abe before boarding Air Force One with her husband on Friday, February 10. The Trumps hosted the Abes at their Mar-a-Lago estate in Palm Beach, Florida. Photos: First lady Melania TrumpThe first lady shakes hands with Japanese Prime Minister Shinzo Abe before boarding Air Force One with her husband on Friday, February 10. The Trumps hosted the Abes at their Mar-a-Lago estate in Palm Beach, Florida.Hide Caption 21 of 27The Trumps arrive at Trump International Golf Club in West Palm Beach, Florida, on Sunday, February 5. The Trumps were attending a Super Bowl party at the club.The Trumps arrive at Trump International Golf Club in West Palm Beach, Florida, on Sunday, February 5. The Trumps were attending a Super Bowl party at the club. Photos: First lady Melania TrumpThe Trumps arrive at Trump International Golf Club in West Palm Beach, Florida, on Sunday, February 5. The Trumps were attending a Super Bowl party at the club.Hide Caption 22 of 27The Trumps arrive for a Red Cross Gala at their Mar-a-Lago estate on Saturday, February 4.The Trumps arrive for a Red Cross Gala at their Mar-a-Lago estate on Saturday, February 4. Photos: First lady Melania TrumpThe Trumps arrive for a Red Cross Gala at their Mar-a-Lago estate on Saturday, February 4.Hide Caption 23 of 27The first lady walks across the tarmac to greet well-wishers in West Palm Beach on Friday, February 3. The first lady walks across the tarmac to greet well-wishers in West Palm Beach on Friday, February 3. Photos: First lady Melania TrumpThe first lady walks across the tarmac to greet well-wishers in West Palm Beach on Friday, February 3. Hide Caption 24 of 27Trump gives a speech during one of the inaugural balls in Washington on Friday, January 20.Trump gives a speech during one of the inaugural balls in Washington on Friday, January 20. Photos: First lady Melania TrumpTrump gives a speech during one of the inaugural balls in Washington on Friday, January 20.Hide Caption 25 of 27The first lady dances with her husband at an inaugural ball on January 20.The first lady dances with her husband at an inaugural ball on January 20. Photos: First lady Melania TrumpThe first lady dances with her husband at an inaugural ball on January 20.Hide Caption 26 of 27The first lady leaves the President's Room of the Senate after her husband was sworn into office on January 20.The first lady leaves the President's Room of the Senate after her husband was sworn into office on January 20. Photos: First lady Melania TrumpThe first lady leaves the President’s Room of the Senate after her husband was sworn into office on January 20.Hide Caption 27 of 27Melania and Donald Trump Paris RESTRICTED01 Melania Trump Science Center 070602 Melania Barron Trump Melania Trump Vatican01 Melania Trump Pediatric Hospital Vatican 0524Melania Trump Western Wall 0522Donald and Melania Trump Awkward Moment Israe02 melania trump 052101 melania trump 0520Melania Trump Mothers Day event melania trump ribbon cutting 042804 week in politics 0429Melania Trump 0417 RESTRICTEDmelania trump 032901 melania trump book day 030201 Melania Trump 022802 Melania Trump 021804 Melania Trump 021503 Melania Trump 021507 Melania Trump06 Melania Trump05 Melania Trump04 Melania Trump03 Melania Trump02 Melania Trumpcnnee trump melania donald baile inaugural washington toma posesion01 Melania TrumpA recent CNN poll found Melania Trump is the most popular member of the first family. About 44% of respondents had a favorable view of her, compared with 41% for her husband. The President, however, seems comfortable with that. At a private dinner for the White House Historical Association, Trump told the audience that America is enamored with the first lady. “They love her out there … they’re loving Melania,” he said, calling her the “star of the Trump family.” Still, there are high-profile times the couple appeared out of step. In August, after a spate of national and international crises, from the Barcelona terror attacks to the Charlottesville, Virginia, riots, it became apparent that the first lady’s voice of support and condolence, through her social media accounts, was far more timely and compassionate than that of her husband. A White House official said the first lady does not check in with her husband before posting. “She is her own person,” the official told CNN. “She operates the account herself and pays close attention to which events warrant comment, and which do not.” The divide in approach again points to a first couple unlike those that came before. “Mrs. Bush would always say, ‘I’m not here for myself, I’m here for George and because of George,’ and that was the prism and the filter she used for her platform,” said McBride. Literacy, the cause she championed, fit well into the President’s overarching initiatives, so the melding was relatively seamless. First lady Melania Trump stands alongside the gown she wore to the 2017 inaugural balls as <a href="http://www.cnn.com/2017/10/18/politics/melania-trump-gown-smithsonian/index.html">she donates the dress</a> to the Smithsonian's First Ladies Collection at the Smithsonian National Museum of American History in Washington on October 20, 2017.First lady Melania Trump stands alongside the gown she wore to the 2017 inaugural balls as <a href="http://www.cnn.com/2017/10/18/politics/melania-trump-gown-smithsonian/index.html">she donates the dress</a> to the Smithsonian's First Ladies Collection at the Smithsonian National Museum of American History in Washington on October 20, 2017. Photos: Melania Trump donates her inaugural gown to SmithsonianFirst lady Melania Trump stands alongside the gown she wore to the 2017 inaugural balls as she donates the dress to the Smithsonian’s First Ladies Collection at the Smithsonian National Museum of American History in Washington on October 20, 2017.Hide Caption 1 of 6U.S. first lady Melania Trump and fashion designer Herve Pierre attend an event at the Smithsonian National Museum of American History where the first lady donated her inaugural gown to the museum October 20, 2017 in Washington, DC. The first lady said, 'Today is such an honor as I dedicate my inaugural couture piece to the First Ladies exhibit at the National Museum of American History.'U.S. first lady Melania Trump and fashion designer Herve Pierre attend an event at the Smithsonian National Museum of American History where the first lady donated her inaugural gown to the museum October 20, 2017 in Washington, DC. The first lady said, 'Today is such an honor as I dedicate my inaugural couture piece to the First Ladies exhibit at the National Museum of American History.' Photos: Melania Trump donates her inaugural gown to SmithsonianU.S. first lady Melania Trump and fashion designer Herve Pierre attend an event at the Smithsonian National Museum of American History where the first lady donated her inaugural gown to the museum October 20, 2017 in Washington, DC. The first lady said, ‘Today is such an honor as I dedicate my inaugural couture piece to the First Ladies exhibit at the National Museum of American History.’Hide Caption 2 of 6First lady Michelle Obama and inaugural dress designer Jason Wu look at her inaugural gown that's now on display at the Smithsonian museum on March 9, 2010.First lady Michelle Obama and inaugural dress designer Jason Wu look at her inaugural gown that's now on display at the Smithsonian museum on March 9, 2010. Photos: Melania Trump donates her inaugural gown to SmithsonianFirst lady Michelle Obama and inaugural dress designer Jason Wu look at her inaugural gown that’s now on display at the Smithsonian museum on March 9, 2010.Hide Caption 3 of 6First lady Laura Bush looks at her inaugural ball gown after it was set on display at the American history museum on January 20, 2002.First lady Laura Bush looks at her inaugural ball gown after it was set on display at the American history museum on January 20, 2002. Photos: Melania Trump donates her inaugural gown to SmithsonianFirst lady Laura Bush looks at her inaugural ball gown after it was set on display at the American history museum on January 20, 2002.Hide Caption 4 of 6First lady Hillary Clinton donates the dress she wore to the 1993 inaugural balls to the Smithsonian's National Museum of American History on March 6, 1995.First lady Hillary Clinton donates the dress she wore to the 1993 inaugural balls to the Smithsonian's National Museum of American History on March 6, 1995. Photos: Melania Trump donates her inaugural gown to SmithsonianFirst lady Hillary Clinton donates the dress she wore to the 1993 inaugural balls to the Smithsonian’s National Museum of American History on March 6, 1995.Hide Caption 5 of 6Former US first ladies' dresses are displayed at the Smithsonian's National Museum of American History in Washington on November 18, 2011. "The First Ladies" is a major exhibition showcasing the premier objects from the century-old First Ladies Collection. It features 26 dresses, including those worn by Frances Cleveland, Lou Hoover, Jacqueline Kennedy, Laura Bush and Michelle Obama, and more than 160 other objects, including portraits, White House china and personal possessions.Former US first ladies' dresses are displayed at the Smithsonian's National Museum of American History in Washington on November 18, 2011. "The First Ladies" is a major exhibition showcasing the premier objects from the century-old First Ladies Collection. It features 26 dresses, including those worn by Frances Cleveland, Lou Hoover, Jacqueline Kennedy, Laura Bush and Michelle Obama, and more than 160 other objects, including portraits, White House china and personal possessions. Photos: Melania Trump donates her inaugural gown to SmithsonianFormer US first ladies’ dresses are displayed at the Smithsonian’s National Museum of American History in Washington on November 18, 2011. “The First Ladies” is a major exhibition showcasing the premier objects from the century-old First Ladies Collection. It features 26 dresses, including those worn by Frances Cleveland, Lou Hoover, Jacqueline Kennedy, Laura Bush and Michelle Obama, and more than 160 other objects, including portraits, White House china and personal possessions.Hide Caption 6 of 601 first lady dress06 first lady dress02 first lady dress03 first lady dress04 first lady dress05 first lady dress“The East Wing definitely has some independence, but not this kind of independence,” said the Obama White House official, referring to the Trump’s differing philosophies. “It hasn’t before been as though there’s a completely different view of the world from one side than the other.” The same could be said of how previous first ladies got in the trenches with their husbands when the heat was on. McBride pointed to Hurricane Katrina as an example of the Bushes having each other’s back. “There were things like that which were controversial for him, but that didn’t stop her from being there, from her going down to New Orleans 26 times after the storm and working on behalf of the administration, even when the administration wasn’t necessarily in good standing down there,” McBride said.McBride, who also worked in the Reagan administration as director of White House personnel, said Nancy Reagan would speak up quite frequently to West Wing staff when it came to President Ronald Reagan’s policies and positions. “She always had her antenna up, and in her mind she was doing what she felt best served the President,” said McBride. “She did it because she 100% was trying to protect him and shape how he was remembered by history.” The Trump dynamic doesn’t appear to operate in the same manner, at least not on the surface. The first lady rarely gets involved with her husband’s scuffles, or his bruising responses to those who oppose him. In an interview with CBS’ “60 Minutes” shortly after the election, Melania Trump said she sometimes tries to help contain her husband, but it didn’t appear to be a priority. “I think he hears me. But he will do what he wants to do on the end. He’s an adult. He knows the consequences. And I give him my opinion. And he could do whatever he likes with it,” Trump told “60 Minutes.” In June, after the President tweeted harsh words at MSNBC host Mika Brzezinski, Grisham was asked if the first lady had anything to say about the dispute. “As the first lady has stated publicly in the past, when her husband gets attacked, he will punch back 10 times harder,” was all the statement said.Outside perceptions vs. realityTrumps display affection during speechTrumps display affection during speechTrumps display affection during speechJUST WATCHEDTrumps display affection during speechReplayMore Videos …MUST WATCH

Trumps display affection during speech 02:03The observations about the first lady having her own independent methodology does not, however, seem to imply the couple doesn’t get along. In fact, one observer who has spent time with them lately says she has seen the President be “very affectionate” with Melania at times, and that he is “deferential to her.” “I can appreciate how perceptions of the first couple on the outside are generally wrong,” said McBride, who witnessed both the public and private sides of both the Bushes and the Reagans. “For President Bush and the first lady, their lives were so completely intertwined, they didn’t even have to speak a word, they could merely be in the same room to know what the other was thinking or feeling, so demonstrating that closeness just wasn’t necessary — and that could sometimes be perceived as a coldness or as trouble. But it wasn’t,” she said.A current White House official said the first lady’s primary objective right now has little to do with how her relationship with the President is perceived by White House observers. “She wants to establish herself as a first lady who helps children, that’s her mission while her husband is in office,” the official told CNN. Next week, the first lady will accompany her husband to Asia, where she is expected to attend ceremonies and dinners with him, standing by his side, as she is often seen doing. But CNN has learned Melania Trump also has a number of solo events on the itinerary, too. They are likely to showcase the burgeoning independence that’s happening not because of, but perhaps in spite of, her husband’s tumultuous presidency.

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